This section serves as a central guide for both prospective and current clients. You’ll find answers to common questions about our care, what to expect at different stages, and how to navigate your experience with Lux Midwifery from start to finish.
What can you expect?
What’s it like being a client at Lux Midwifery?
We’re honored to walk alongside you during this time.
Pregnancy is not just a clinical event—it is a profound physical, emotional, and relational experience. The way care is provided matters. It shapes how you feel in your body, how you make decisions, and how you carry this experience with you long after your baby is born.
At Lux Midwifery, care is designed to be thorough, unhurried, and relationship-based.
You will not be rushed through appointments. You will not be treated like a number or a checklist. Instead, care is built around time, attention, and trust—so that we can understand your health in context, not just in snapshots.
This model allows space for real conversation, thoughtful clinical care, and individualized support. It creates the conditions for early recognition of changes, deeper understanding of your needs, and more informed, confident decision-making throughout your pregnancy.
You are not expected to navigate this alone.
You are supported, informed, and known here.
Your Role in Care
Care at Lux Midwifery is collaborative.
I seek to empower you to take an active role in your health and wellness throughout pregnancy and beyond. You will be given information, context, and support so that you can make informed decisions with clarity and confidence.
My role is to guide, assess, and support—not to override your instincts or make decisions for you. We work together, combining clinical knowledge with your lived experience of your own body.
This approach builds trust, awareness, and confidence as you prepare for your birth and transition into parenthood.
Honesty, Confidentiality & Trauma-Informed Care
Your care at Lux Midwifery is grounded in trust, respect, and confidentiality.
Everything you share with me is kept confidential. This includes conversations that occur in the presence of partners, family members, or other support people. If there is anything you would prefer to discuss privately, you are always welcome to do so.
As part of your intake and ongoing care, I may ask about your personal history, including any experiences of trauma or abuse. These experiences can shape how you feel in your body, how you process medical care, and how you move through pregnancy and birth.
You are never required to share more than you are comfortable with. At the same time, having a fuller understanding of your experiences allows me to provide trauma-informed care—care that is attentive to your emotional safety, respects your boundaries, and avoids unnecessary triggers whenever possible.
I encourage you to be open and honest with me about your health, your experiences, and your use of any medical or recreational substances. My role is not to judge—it is to understand the full picture so that I can provide safe, informed, and supportive care.
In return, I will always be honest with you. If I have any concerns about your health or your pregnancy, I will communicate them clearly and early so that we can address them together.
I also have access to a broad network of community resources and referrals. If needs arise—medical, emotional, or practical—please reach out. Support is available, and you do not have to navigate those things alone.
Scope of Care & Transfer of Care
Care at Lux Midwifery is designed for low-risk, healthy pregnancies and supports physiological pregnancy and birth.
Throughout your care, we continuously assess your health and your baby’s well-being. Pregnancy is a dynamic process, and sometimes conditions arise that require additional evaluation or a different level of care.
If something develops that is outside the scope of midwifery care, we may recommend:
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Additional monitoring or testing
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Consultation with a specialist
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Co-management with a hospital-based provider
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Transfer of care to a hospital-based setting
These decisions are made with you, not for you. You will be informed, involved, and supported in understanding what is happening and why recommendations are being made.
The goal is always to ensure the safest possible outcome for you and your baby.
If transfer to hospital-based care becomes necessary during pregnancy or labor, I will support coordination of that transition. A partial refund of your global fee is available in the event of a transfer during pregnancy, based on the portion of care already completed.
Following discharge, postpartum care with Lux Midwifery will resume as appropriate.
A Note on Safety
Midwifery care is not about avoiding medical care—it is about using the right level of care at the right time.
Most pregnancies progress normally and remain within the scope of midwifery care. When additional support is needed, we adjust the plan accordingly.
Examples of Situations That May Require Transfer of Care Prenatally
While most pregnancies remain within the scope of midwifery care, certain conditions may require consultation, co-management, or transfer to hospital-based care during pregnancy.
Examples include:
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High blood pressure disorders, including gestational hypertension or preeclampsia
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Gestational diabetes that requires medication or is difficult to manage
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Significant changes in your baby’s growth or well-being
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Persistent concerns with fetal movement or heart rate patterns
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Preterm labor or risk of preterm birth
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Placental concerns, such as placenta previa or placenta accreta
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Breech or other non-head-down positioning at term (depending on circumstances)
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Multiple gestation (twins or more)
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Infection or illness that requires hospital-based treatment
- Need for induction or augmentation of labor
- Any situation where additional monitoring, medication, or intervention is recommended for safety
These examples are not exhaustive. Each situation is assessed individually, with your health and your baby’s well-being guiding decision-making. I reserve the right to transfer care to a hospital or physician if your clinical profile no longer meets the guidelines for the midwifery scope of practice.
Hospital Transfer Logistics
If a transfer to hospital-based care becomes necessary during your labor and birth, or shortly after giving birth, care will be coordinated in a way that prioritizes safety, continuity, and clear communication.
Midwifery care includes ongoing assessment of risk throughout pregnancy and labor. We are trained to recognize early changes in physiology and to act on those findings promptly.
Transfer is not reserved for emergencies. In many cases, we transfer early, when concerns first arise, so that care can be escalated in a timely and controlled way. This approach supports better outcomes and avoids preventable complications.
Common Indications for Transfer in Labor, Birth, or Postpartum
Situations that may lead to transfer during labor include:
- Changes in maternal vital signs, including blood pressure abnormalities
- Concerns with fetal heart rate patterns
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Prolonged or stalled labor that is not progressing as expected
- Need for pain management or interventions not available in the home setting
- Signs of infection, fever, or other illness
- Excessive bleeding or concern for hemorrhage
- Fetal malpositioning that is obstructing labor
- Development of conditions that move outside the scope of low-risk care
These examples are not exhaustive. Each situation is assessed in real time, with decisions guided by clinical findings and overall safety.
Transfer Locations & Planning
In the Wichita area, transfers are typically made to:
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Wesley Medical Center, or
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St. Joseph Medical Center
The specific location may depend on your preference, insurance coverage, and clinical circumstances.
If you have insurance that covers maternity care, it is recommended that you establish backup care with a hospital-based provider who:
- Accepts your insurance
- Has privileges at the hospital you would prefer to use
This allows for a smoother transition of care in the event that transfer becomes necessary.
How Transfer Happens
In most situations:
- You will travel to the hospital by private vehicle (generally your own private vehicle. For liability reasons, I am unable to transport clients in active labor to the hospital.) I recommend you have at least one support person present during labor who can drive you to the hospital should a non-emergent transfer be needed. I do not recommend you drive yourself to the hospital.
- I will follow you to the hospital in my vehicle to provide continuity of support and a handoff to the hospital care team.
- If urgent medical needs arise, emergency medical services (EMS) will be activated
I will communicate with the receiving hospital team to provide relevant information about your care and clinical status.
Depending on the situation:
- I may accompany you to the hospital,
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Meet you there, or
- Remain available for coordination and communication as needed
Once care is transferred, the hospital-based provider will assume primary clinical responsibility.
Continuity of Support
Transfer does not mean loss of support.
- I remain available for communication and coordination, as appropriate
- Once you are discharged home, I will resume your postpartum care
A Note on Transfer
Home birth is appropriate for pregnancies that remain within low-risk clinical parameters.
We do not guarantee that every client will ultimately give birth at home. The goal is not to ensure a specific location of birth, but to ensure that you and your baby are cared for in the setting most appropriate for your clinical needs.
This model of care is designed to:
- Identify changes early
- Respond appropriately
- Support you through transitions in care
At every stage, the priority is safety, informed decision-making, and continuity of support.
Consent & Decision-Making
Care at Lux Midwifery is based on informed, shared decision-making.
Throughout your care, you will receive clear information about your health, your baby’s well-being, and any recommendations that arise. This includes discussion of the reason for recommendations, potential risks and benefits, and available alternatives, when appropriate.
You retain full autonomy in making decisions about your care.
My role is to provide clinical assessment, guidance, and recommendations based on training and experience. Your role is to consider that information in the context of your values, preferences, and lived experience.
Decisions are made together, with the shared goal of maintaining safety while supporting a birth experience that is aligned with your needs.
Liability & Responsibility
Care at Lux Midwifery is based on clinical assessment, informed decision-making, and shared responsibility.
Midwifery is a distinct traditional model of care with a long-standing history, focused on supporting low-risk pregnancy and physiological birth. It is practiced alongside, and in collaboration with, the broader medical system. This model of care is evidence-based and works best when you have access to the appropriate level of care for your needs, including referrals to non-midwife specialists if complications arise.
Throughout your care, every effort is made to screen for conditions that fall outside of low-risk parameters, and to identify changes early. When concerns arise, care is triaged to the appropriate level, including consultation, co-management, or transfer to hospital-based providers.
The goal of care is not a specific birth setting at all costs.
The goal is safe birth, and dignified birth.
Recommendations are made based on current clinical findings, training, and professional judgment. While every effort is made to support safe outcomes, outcomes cannot be guaranteed.
Pregnancy, labor, and birth are dynamic processes. Changes can occur that are not predictable or preventable, even with appropriate care and monitoring.
Your participation in care—including attending visits, communicating concerns, being in tune with your body’s cues and inner knowing, and following through with recommendations—plays an important role in maintaining safety.
This model of care is built on ongoing assessment, early recognition of change, and appropriate response when clinical needs evolve.
Investment & Payment Structure
Care at Lux Midwifery is offered as a global fee of $5,500.
This fee reflects comprehensive, relationship-based care throughout your pregnancy, birth, and postpartum period, including extended time, availability, and continuity of care.
What is Included
Your global fee includes:
Prenatal Care
- Approximately 18–21 prenatal visits, totaling around 20 hours of face-to-face prenatal care
- A 2-hour initial intake visit
- Ongoing visits (typically 60–90 minutes each)
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Review and interpretation of all labs and imaging
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Care coordination, including referrals and communication with other providers when needed
- Ongoing clinical assessment, education, and support throughout pregnancy
Labor & Birth Care
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On-call availability 24/7 beginning at 37 weeks gestation
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Continuous presence during active labor and birth
- In-home evaluation during onset of active labor, as indicated
- Full clinical monitoring and support throughout labor
- Immediate postpartum care following birth (typically several hours in your home)
Postpartum Care
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Multiple postpartum visits, 60 to 90 minutes each, including at:
- 24 hours (in-home)
- 48 hours (in-home)
- 1 week (in-home)
- 2 weeks (in-home or office)
- 1 month (office)
- 6–8 weeks (office)
- 24 hours (in-home)
- Ongoing assessment of both maternal recovery and newborn well-being
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Feeding and lactation support
- Continued access to care and guidance during the postpartum period
Additional Support
- Access to wellness spaces (meditation and art therapy rooms) through one year postpartum
- Communication access for questions, concerns, and guidance throughout care
- I file your baby’s birth certificate information with the state of Kansas
What is Not Included
The following are not included in the global fee:
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Laboratory processing fees (billed separately through Path Group)
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Ultrasound and imaging costs (billed through Cypress Imaging)
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Medications and prescriptions, including items such as Rhogam, if indicated
- Any hospital-based care or services outside the midwifery scope
- Primary medical care for your general, non-pregnancy related health needs
- Well newborn checks outside of general screenings offered at birth, 24 hours, and 48 hours of life.
New Patient Fee
A $200 non-refundable New Patient Fee is required prior to your first visit in order to reserve your place in care.
This fee is separate from the global care fee and is not applied toward your balance.
The New Patient Fee covers one-time expenses associated with initiating your care, including:
- Creation and setup of your medical chart and records
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Lab draw supplies used throughout your pregnancy
- Disposable clinical materials specific to your care
Because Lux Midwifery accepts a limited number of clients per month, this fee secures your place in care.
This fee is non-refundable, as these resources are allocated specifically to you once your care is initiated.
Payment Plans
Payment plans are available and may be structured in increments of your choosing, as long as the full balance is paid within the required timeframe.
If you choose to use a payment plan, you will be required to complete and sign a payment plan agreement form outlining your payment schedule.
Payment Timeline
The remaining balance must be paid in full by 36 weeks gestation.
This ensures that I am able to be on call for your birth beginning at 37 weeks (full term).
If your balance is not paid in full by this time:
- I may, at my discretion, continue to provide prenatal care through the end of your pregnancy, or I may refer you to another local prenatal care provider who is available to see you.
- I will assist with coordination of transfer of your records to a hospital-based clinician.
- A hospital-based clinician will assume care and attend your birth.
If you anticipate difficulty meeting this timeline, please reach out early so we can discuss options.
Late Entry to Care
Lux Midwifery is designed for clients who begin care early in pregnancy, allowing time to build a relationship, review your health history, and provide comprehensive prenatal support.
I do not often accept clients late in pregnancy. However, when space allows and I am able to take a late transfer:
- The full global fee still applies
- You will be required to attend multiple prenatal visits prior to your birth
- All prenatal records from previous providers must be transferred and reviewed prior to acceptance into care
Late entry into care requires additional time to:
- Review your medical and prenatal history
- Assess current health status and risk factors
- Establish a safe and appropriate plan for your care
Because of this, acceptance into care later in pregnancy is limited and not guaranteed.
Transfer of Care & Refunds
If your care moves outside the scope of midwifery and transfer to hospital-based care is required during pregnancy, a partial refund, determined at the discretion of your midwife, will be issued based on the portion of care already completed.
If transfer occurs during labor or birth, postpartum care with Lux Midwifery will resume once you are discharged home.
A Note on Value
This model of care is built on time, availability, and continuity.
You are not paying for isolated visits—you are investing in a model of care that supports you across the full course of pregnancy, birth, and postpartum.
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Consistent, extended time at each visit to ensure your concerns are addressed and your questions are answered
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Individualized guidance on nutrition and lifestyle, supporting you in taking an active role in your health and reducing the risk of complications
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Direct access to your midwife, with ongoing communication and support throughout your care
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Continuous clinical monitoring at every visit, allowing for early identification of changes in your health or your baby’s well-being
These ongoing assessments act as clinical guardrails, helping to identify early physiological changes that may indicate developing complications.
If additional care is needed, this model allows for timely referral and coordination with specialists, including obstetricians, maternal-fetal medicine providers, or other appropriate clinicians.
The goal is to support a pregnancy that remains within safe parameters for home birth, while ensuring that any changes are recognized early and addressed appropriately.
Labs & Imaging
Care at Lux Midwifery includes standard prenatal laboratory testing and imaging in alignment with current obstetric guidelines. These evaluations support ongoing assessment of maternal health and fetal well-being throughout pregnancy.
Laboratory Testing
Laboratory specimens are collected in-office at appropriate intervals during pregnancy. Standard testing may include:
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ABO blood type and Rh factor
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Complete blood count (CBC) to assess for anemia and other hematologic conditions
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Infectious disease screening, including HIV, hepatitis B, and syphilis
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Sexually transmitted infection (STI) screening in early pregnancy and again in the third trimester, with additional testing as indicated or requested
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Rubella immunity status
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Vitamin D level
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Urinalysis and urine culture, as indicated
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Glucose screening for gestational diabetes
- Additional laboratory testing based on individual risk factors, history, or clinical findings
STI testing is performed in a confidential manner, and additional testing of you or your partner(s) is available upon request at any time in your pregnancy.
All laboratory specimens are processed through Path Group. Path Group will bill your insurance when applicable. Please provide your insurance card at every lab draw for us to forward for billing. If services are not covered, Path Group will bill you directly at their established self-pay rates.
Imaging
Patients are referred for standard obstetric ultrasound imaging, which typically includes:
- A first-trimester ultrasound to confirm intrauterine pregnancy, gestational age, and viability
- A second-trimester fetal anatomy ultrasound (typically performed around 18–22 weeks gestation)
Additional imaging may be recommended based on clinical indications.
Ultrasound services are provided through Cypress Imaging, which will bill your insurance when applicable.
Visit Frequency & Total Time in Care
Appointments are scheduled frequently to allow for close, consistent support:
| Gestational Age | Visit Frequency |
| 0–12 weeks | Every 4 weeks |
| 13–27 weeks | Every 3 weeks |
| 28–36 weeks | Every 2 weeks |
| 37 weeks and beyond | Twice weekly |
Most clients will have approximately 18–21 visits, totaling around 20 hours of prenatal care.
If you begin care later in pregnancy, your visit schedule will be adjusted to allow for more frequent visits. This ensures we still spend adequate time together to build our relationship, monitor your health, and prepare for your birth.
Location of Visits
Appointments are typically held in my office at 220 W. Douglas, Suite 15, Wichita KS 67202. Please park in the visitor parking garage and bring your parking ticket in for me to validate. Parking in the visitor garage is free with validation. Pay per hour curbside parking is available directly in front of the office on Douglas.
Beginning at 37 weeks, you may choose to have your visits in your home if you wish rather than coming into the office. This allows us to assess your space, support your preparation, and meet you where you are as you approach birth.
If you have mobility needs or other access considerations, please let me know. Your care can be adapted with a combination of office and home visits to best support you.
Medications, Supplements & Herbal Use
During pregnancy, it is important that all medications, supplements, and herbal products are used with care.
Many substances—including over-the-counter medications and herbal remedies—can affect pregnancy, fetal development, or labor.
Communication About Use
Please inform me of:
- Any prescription medications you are taking
- Any over-the-counter medications
- Any vitamins, supplements, or herbal products
- Any medical or recreational substance use
This information helps ensure that your care is safe, coordinated, and appropriate for your individual needs.
Before Starting Anything New
Please check with me before starting:
- New medications
- New supplements or vitamins
- Herbal products, teas, or tinctures
“Natural” does not always mean safe in pregnancy. Some herbs and supplements can impact hormones, blood pressure, uterine activity, or fetal development.
Guidance & Support
I can help guide you in:
- Choosing safe and appropriate options for common concerns
- Understanding risks and benefits of medications when needed
- Coordinating with other providers if prescriptions are required
The goal is not to limit options, but to ensure that what you are using is safe, intentional, and supportive of your health and your baby’s well-being.
Nutrition & Lifestyle
Your daily habits play an important role in supporting a healthy pregnancy. Nutrition, hydration, movement, rest, environmental exposures, and stress all interact to influence how you feel and how your body functions throughout this time.
During your care, you will receive individualized guidance based on your needs, preferences, and any clinical considerations. In general:
- Aim for regular, balanced meals that include fresh organic fruits and vegetables, protein, healthy fats, and complex carbohydrates to support steady energy and blood sugar regulation
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Hydration is essential. Drinking water consistently throughout the day supports circulation, amniotic fluid levels, and overall well-being. Aim to drink half your weight in ounces per day.
- Engage in movement and activity for thirty minutes every day as tolerated, such as walking, stretching, or other forms of gentle exercise
- Prioritize rest and sleep, getting a minimum of 10 hours of sleep each night, especially as pregnancy progresses
Food & Environmental Considerations
Reducing exposure to certain environmental substances can support overall health during pregnancy.
- Aim to limit processed foods, especially those that are boxed, bagged, or packaged in plastic or foil
- Prioritize fresh, whole foods when possible
- Reducing packaged food consumption may decrease exposure to substances such as BPA and other endocrine-disrupting chemicals
In addition:
- Avoid alcohol during pregnancy
- Limit or avoid caffeine
- Avoid fast food and highly processed foods
- Avoid exposure to secondhand cigarette smoke
- Avoid strong chemical fumes (cleaning agents, solvents, etc.)
- Avoid close contact with individuals who are actively ill, when possible
- Avoid handling cleaning products or cat litter with bare skin
- Use condoms and dental dams when having sex with new partners or current partners who have unprotected sex with other people
Personal Care Products
What you apply to your skin can also be absorbed into your body.
During pregnancy, I recommend:
- Using simple, low-toxicity personal care products
- Avoiding scented soaps, lotions, and fragranced products
- Avoiding perfumes and synthetic fragrances, which may contain endocrine-disrupting compounds
- Avoid acrylic nails, perms, hair dyes, and acrylic based glues such as lash glue. These all expose you to airborn and absorbed chemicals that may alter fetal development and the health of your pregnancy.
Simple options such as castile soap and unscented lotions (such as hemp-based products) are generally well-tolerated and appropriate during pregnancy.
Stress & Emotional Well-Being
Your mental and emotional health are an important part of your overall health in pregnancy. Stress is not just psychological—it has real physiological effects on your body.
When possible:
- Limit exposure to situations or environments that create ongoing stress
- Set boundaries with people or dynamics that feel consistently stressful or draining
- Create space for rest, quiet, and regulation throughout your day
At the same time, it is understood that not all stress can be avoided. The goal is not to eliminate stress entirely, but to recognize it and respond to it with support.
If additional support is needed, I may recommend or refer you to a therapist or other mental health resources. Engaging in that support is an important part of your care.
A Practical Approach
These recommendations are intended to reduce exposure and support your health, not to create stress or perfectionism.
Small, consistent choices over time have a meaningful impact. We will work together to find approaches that are realistic and sustainable for your life.
Birth & Postpartum Care
Care at Lux Midwifery includes continuous support through labor, birth, and the postpartum period. This is a time of significant transition, and care is designed to support both your physical safety and your overall well-being.
Attendance at Your Birth
When you believe you are in labor, you will contact me. I will assess your symptoms and determine when to come to you based on multiple factors that indicate active, progressing labor.
Once you are in active labor, I will come to your home and evaluate you and your baby.
If you are not yet in active labor, I may return later to reassess. This is a normal part of the process and helps ensure that I am present at the appropriate time as labor progresses.
Once I arrive during active labor, I remain with you throughout your labor and birth, and into the immediate postpartum period.
Immediately After Birth
After your baby is born, care continues in your home.
The birth team will:
- Clean up birth supplies and materials (including chux pads and other equipment)
- Assist you with getting cleaned up and comfortable
- Support you in using the bathroom and/or showering, if appropriate
- Start laundry (such as soiled linens)
Clinical care includes:
- Assessment of your bleeding, uterine tone, and overall stability
- Ongoing monitoring of your vital signs
- A complete newborn exam
- Support with feeding and latch
- Monitoring your baby’s transition and overall well-being
Before leaving, we will ensure that both you and your baby are stable.
Your support people will be given clear instructions on how to monitor your health and your baby’s well-being between visits.
Postpartum Visits
Postpartum care includes scheduled visits in your home to support recovery and adjustment:
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24 hours after birth (plus collection of the newborn blood spot testing as required by state law)
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48 hours after birth
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1 week postpartum
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2 weeks postpartum
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1 month postpartum
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6–8 weeks postpartum
These visits allow for ongoing assessment of both you and your baby, including:
For you:
- Physical recovery, including bleeding and healing
- Blood pressure and overall health
- Emotional well-being and adjustment
For your baby:
- Weight and growth
- Feeding and latch
- Overall health and development
Note: You will need to establish care for well-baby checks with a pediatrician or other provider of your choice. The midwifery scope of care includes evaluation of healthy, typical newborns, with transfer of care to a pediatrician after the 48 hour visit or sooner, if indicated.
Newborn Emergency Plan
Most newborns transition normally after birth. However, part of safe care includes preparation for situations where a higher level of support is needed.
The birth team is trained and equipped to:
- Support newborn transition and initial resuscitation, if needed
- Assess breathing, heart rate, tone, and overall adaptation to life outside the womb
If additional care is required beyond what can be safely provided in the home setting:
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Emergency medical services (EMS) will be activated
- Your baby may be transported to the hospital for further evaluation and care
These decisions are made promptly based on clinical assessment, with the goal of ensuring your baby receives the appropriate level of care without delay.
Preparation for these possibilities is part of providing safe, responsible care—even when they are not needed.
Newborn Blood Spot Testing
The Kansas Newborn Screening (NBS) Blood Spot Program screens all babies born in Kansas for many different metabolic and genetic disorders at no cost to families. These conditions are serious but treatable with early detection and timely intervention. State law requires all babies born in the state to have a newborn screen shortly after birth to ensure all Kansas newborns have access to early intervention if they are identified as having one of these conditions. See a list of conditions currently screened by the Kansas Newborn Screening Program.
Your Voice in Care
If you have a concern, I want to know. Please reach out.
Open communication is an important part of safe and effective care. While non-urgent topics can often be addressed during your scheduled visits, you are always welcome to share what is on your mind so that we can determine the best way to support you.
If at any point you feel that something is not being addressed, or that you are not being heard, please tell me. Your understanding of your care plan—and your active participation in it—matters.
My role is to ensure you feel informed, supported, and involved in the decisions that shape your care.
Use of Wellness Spaces is Included
As part of your care, you may also schedule time in the immersive meditation rooms or art therapy room following your appointment.
This time is available as a self-guided extension of your visit. Some clients use it to rest and integrate, others to connect with their partner or support people, or to take intentional time for reflection and preparation.
This is not an add-on—it is part of how your care supports your overall well-being.
Who can come to your appointments?
You are always welcome to bring your partner, children, family members, doula, or other support people to your appointments.
Birth is a transition that affects your whole family, and including your support people in your care allows them to feel informed, prepared, and connected.
Your support people may join your visit, or use the space in a way that feels most supportive. They are welcome to spend time in the immersive wellness rooms or art therapy room, or participate alongside you.
There is a dedicated area for children to play, with activities for both younger and older children.
We also offer a birth preparation station, where partners and support people can explore materials designed to help them feel confident and prepared to support you during your baby’s birth.
If you or a member of your household is ill
If you, your child, or a member of your household is experiencing a contagious illness, please contact me prior to your appointment.
Your care will continue with a plan that keeps you supported while protecting others. In many cases, I will provide a no-contact drop-off telehealth kit so that we can complete your visit remotely.
This kit includes supplies to:
- Check your blood pressure
- Perform a 12-parameter urine dip test
- Measure your fundal height
We will then complete your visit via telemedicine.
While telehealth visits are not a full substitute for in-person care, they allow us to maintain continuity, monitor your health, and stay connected until you are able to return to the office.
You will not be left without care. There is always a plan in place.
Attendance, Cancellations & Late Arrivals
Your appointments are an essential part of your care. Consistent visits allow us to monitor your health, identify changes early, and support you in preparing for your birth.
If you need to reschedule, please do so at least 24 hours in advance using the link in your appointment confirmation email. This allows your appointment time to be offered to another client.
Appointments that are missed or canceled with less than 24 hours’ notice may be considered a late cancellation.
Please plan to arrive on time for your appointment so that we are able to use your full visit time effectively. If you are running late, please send me a text message or call me as soon as possible.
If you arrive late, your visit may need to be shortened in order to stay on schedule for other clients. In some cases, if you are significantly late, your appointment may need to be rescheduled.
Repeated missed appointments, late cancellations, or consistent lateness can impact the quality and continuity of your care. If this becomes a pattern, we will discuss how to best support your ability to attend visits, as consistent care is an important part of safe and effective midwifery care.
If a barrier arises that makes it difficult for you to attend appointments—such as transportation, childcare, or other challenges—please reach out. We can often work together to find a solution.
Midwife Availability
Every effort is made to provide consistent, reliable care throughout your pregnancy.
If I am temporarily unavailable for a scheduled prenatal visit due to illness, emergency, or other circumstances:
- Your visit will be rescheduled as soon as possible, or
- Appropriate coverage will be arranged, when necessary
For urgent concerns:
- You will always have access to a midwife for support, either through direct contact with me or through designated backup coverage
Beginning at 37 weeks, on-call care is structured to ensure continuous availability for labor and urgent needs.
When to Contact Me
Not every concern requires a visit with your midwife or a visit to the hospital, but many things should still be brought to my attention.
If you are unsure, I would rather you reach out.
Please contact me if you experience:
- A blood pressure reading higher than 130/80
- Persistent symptoms such as headache, swelling, nausea, dizziness, or visual changes
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Changes in how you are feeling physically or emotionally that concern you
- Possible early labor symptoms
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Illness, including fever, vomiting, or respiratory symptoms
- Questions about medications, supplements, exposures, or symptoms
- Anything that feels different from your normal, even if you are unsure whether it is significant
You do not need to determine whether something is “serious enough” before reaching out. That is part of my role.
If a concern becomes urgent or severe, follow the urgent communication protocol or proceed to the hospital as outlined in the next section.
Availability & On-Call Care
During your pregnancy, I am not continuously on call for non-urgent communication. However, I will respond promptly to urgent concerns as they arise.
Beginning at 37 weeks gestation, I am on call for you 24 hours a day until you have your baby. During this time, you may contact me at any hour for labor or urgent concerns.
If I am out of town or otherwise unavailable to take calls, you will be provided with Melinda’s contact information. She will be available as your backup midwife.
Melinda has access to your chart and is familiar with your care, so you are always able to reach a midwife who can support you and respond to your concerns.
Urgent Communication Protocol
If you have an urgent concern: Call me directly at (316) 500-0629
If you send a text and do not receive a response within 15 minutes, please call me.
ONLY If you are unable to reach me after 15 minutes, please call Melinda at 785-979-2477
If you are ever in a situation that feels like an emergency and cannot reach a midwife promptly, please seek care at the nearest hospital.
Non-Urgent Communication
Non-urgent questions, updates, or administrative needs can be sent via text during office hours. These may include:
- Scheduling questions
- General symptoms or updates
- Follow-up questions after visits
- Questions about labs, imaging, or care plans
Please allow time for a response during business hours.
When to Go to the Hospital
There are situations where you should go directly to the nearest Labor & Delivery unit for immediate evaluation. If your concern feels urgent but does not clearly meet hospital criteria, call me first and we will determine next steps together.
If any of the following occur, go to the hospital right away. If possible, call me on your way or once you arrive.
Cardiac & Breathing Symptoms
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Chest pain
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Shortness of breath or difficulty breathing
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Fainting or feeling like you may pass out
Bleeding & Fluid Concerns
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Heavy bright red vaginal bleeding (more than spotting)
- Bleeding with pain or cramping
- A gush or continuous leaking of fluid (possible rupture of membranes), especially before 37 weeks
Fetal Movement
After you begin to feel regular fetal movement around 26-28 weeks gestation, your baby should have a consistent, recognizable pattern of movement.
Rather than focusing on a fixed number, the most important thing is learning what is normal for your baby.
You may use a daily “kick count” as a tool:
- Choose a time when your baby is usually active
- Time how long it takes to feel 10 movements (kicks, rolls, flutters, swishes)
- Over time, you will learn your baby’s typical pattern and timing
Go to the hospital if:
- You notice a decrease in your baby’s usual movement pattern
- Movements feel weaker, slower, or different than normal
- You are not feeling movement when your baby is typically active
- You are concerned about your baby’s movement for any reason
Do not wait until the next day to be evaluated.
Blood Pressure, Circulatory & Preeclampsia Concerns
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Call me if your blood pressure is higher than 130/80
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Go to the hospital immediately if you have:
- Severe headache that does not go away
- Vision changes (blurred vision, spots, flashing lights)
- “Pitting” in your legs
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Right upper abdominal (epigastric) pain
- Sudden swelling of the face or hands
- A blood pressure reading of 160/110 or higher
- Swelling with pain that affects just one leg
- Severe headache that does not go away
Fever
- Fever of 100.4°F (38°C) or higher, especially without a known or expected cause
Preterm Labor (Before 37 Weeks)
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Regular contractions
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Pelvic pressure or a feeling of the baby pushing down
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Low back pain that is rhythmic or persistent
- Fluid leakage or a change in vaginal discharge
Trauma or Injury
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Any impact to your abdomen, such as:
- Car accident
- Fall (especially a hard fall)
- Direct blow to the abdomen
- Car accident
Evaluation is especially important in the third trimester, even if you feel okay afterward.
Trust Your Instincts
- Something feels sudden, severe, or not right
- You feel concerned and are unsure what to do
If you are ever unsure, it is always appropriate to seek evaluation. It is better to be assessed and reassured than to delay care.
If you are able, call me on your way or after arrival so I can support coordination of your care.
Birth Supplies & Home Preparation
As you prepare for your birth, there are a few practical elements to have in place. You will receive a detailed supply list during your care, along with guidance on how to gather and organize your materials.
Birth Kit & Supplies
You will be asked to purchase a pre-assembled birth kit online. This kit contains the essential disposable supplies needed for your birth and immediate postpartum care.
In addition to the birth kit, you will provide a small number of household items (such as linens and comfort supplies), which will be outlined in your supply list.
Birth Pool (Optional)
Birth pools are available for use if you plan to labor or birth in water.
If you choose to use a birth pool, you will need to purchase a sterile, single-use liner. This is required for infection prevention and safe use.
What I Bring
I bring all necessary clinical equipment and medical supplies, including:
- Equipment to monitor you and your baby
- Emergency resuscitation equipment for your baby and you
- Medications for routine and emergency use
- Supplies needed for birth and immediate newborn care
Preparing Your Space
You do not need a perfect home—just a space that is clean, accessible, and functional.
We will work together to ensure your chosen birth space:
- Has enough room for movement and positioning
- Is near a bed or surface where you feel comfortable laboring
- Has access to running water
- Is easy to navigate for both you and the birth team
Beginning at 37 weeks, home visits allow us to assess your space together and make any needed adjustments.
Preparing Your Support Team
Your partner and support people play an important role in your birth.
They will receive guidance on:
- How to support you physically and emotionally during labor
- What to expect as labor progresses
- How to assist in the immediate postpartum period
You do not need to manage everything alone—your support team is part of the process, and we will help prepare them.
Visitors & Privacy During Birth
You are welcome to have your chosen support people present during your labor and birth.
Birth is an intimate and physiologically sensitive process. The environment in which it occurs can influence how your body responds.
For this reason:
- The birth space should remain calm, focused, and supportive
- The number of people present should be intentional and manageable
- Support people should be individuals who contribute to a sense of safety, trust, and stability
If the environment becomes crowded, chaotic, or interferes with care, adjustments may be necessary to maintain a safe and effective setting for birth. Our shared goal is to create an environment that allows your body to labor effectively and safely.
A Note on Preparation
Home birth is a collaborative process. Preparation is not about perfection—it is about creating a space where you feel safe, supported, and ready.
We will guide you through each step so that nothing feels unclear or overwhelming as you approach your birth.
Home Environment Requirements
Home birth requires a setting that supports safe, effective care for both you and your baby.
Your home does not need to be perfect. It does need to meet basic conditions that allow for appropriate monitoring, movement, and response if needs change.
Your birth space should:
- Be clean and reasonably organized
- Have adequate lighting and access to running water
- Allow enough space for movement, positioning, and clinical care
- Be easily accessible for the birth team to move in and out as needed
In addition:
- The environment should be safe and free of hazards that could interfere with care
- There must be a clear plan for transportation to the hospital if needed
- Your location must allow for timely access to emergency services (EMS)
Beginning at 37 weeks, home visits allow us to assess your space together and ensure it is appropriate for birth.
If your environment does not meet basic safety requirements, we will work together to identify adjustments or discuss alternative plans.
Sexual Wellness During Pregnancy
Sexual activity is generally safe throughout pregnancy for people who are low-risk and without specific complications.
If at any point pelvic rest is recommended, you will be informed and given clear guidance.
For most people, it is appropriate to continue a normal, healthy sex life during pregnancy.
Changes in Desire & Comfort
It is normal for sexual desire to fluctuate during pregnancy.
Hormonal changes, physical changes, fatigue, and emotional factors can all influence how you feel about sex at different times. These changes are expected and do not indicate a problem.
Comfort may also change as your body changes. You may need to explore different positions, pacing, or forms of intimacy that feel supportive to your body.
Safety Considerations
- Avoid lying flat on your back for extended periods later in pregnancy
- Choose positions that feel comfortable and do not place pressure on your abdomen
- Stop and reach out if you experience:
- Pain
- Bleeding
- Fluid leakage
- Any unusual symptoms
After penetrative vaginal sex:
- Urinate afterward to help reduce the risk of urinary tract infection (UTI)
Oral sex is generally safe. Avoid blowing air into the vagina, as this can be dangerous.
Sexual Health & Infection Prevention
Open communication about sexual activity is important for safe care.
Please be honest about:
- Your number of partners
- Any new partners
- Any potential exposures
This information allows for appropriate screening, guidance, and risk reduction.
To reduce risk of infection:
- Use barrier protection (condoms, dental dams) with:
- New partners
- Partners who have other sexual partners
- Maintain regular STI screening, as recommended
Exposure & STI Screening
If you have unprotected sex with a new partner, or with a current partner who has other partners (or may have other partners), I recommend completing comprehensive STI screening.
Please let me know, and I can order testing for you.
Some infections during pregnancy can increase the risk of complications, including infection of the pregnancy, preterm birth, or effects on the baby. Early identification and treatment significantly reduce these risks.
Routine screening is part of care, and additional testing after potential exposure is a standard and appropriate part of maintaining safety during pregnancy.
Care at Lux Midwifery is inclusive of all relationship structures and identities, including monogamous and nonmonogamous relationships.
Your care is not based on assumptions. It is based on honest communication and individualized support.
Inclusive Care
Care at Lux Midwifery is grounded in respect for the full range of identities, bodies, and relationship structures.
This includes people of all:
- Sexual orientations
- Gender identities and expressions
- Family structures and relationship configurations, including monogamous and nonmonogamous relationships
Your care will not be based on assumptions. It will be based on who you are, how you identify, and how you define your relationships and support system.
You are welcome to share your:
- Pronouns
- Relationship structure
- Family dynamics
so that your care can be provided in a way that is accurate, respectful, and aligned with your life.
Respect in Care
- Language used in your care will reflect your identity and preferences
- Your support people will be recognized according to your definitions of family and partnership
- Conversations about your body, your pregnancy, and your care will be conducted with respect and without judgment
Clinical Care
Inclusive care does not change the standard of clinical assessment—it ensures that care is delivered in a way that is appropriate, affirming, and responsive to your lived experience.
Open communication supports safe care. You are encouraged to share anything that may impact your health, your relationships, or your experience of pregnancy and birth.
A Note on Care Environment
This practice is intended to be a space where you can show up as you are.
You will be treated with dignity, your identity will be respected, and your care will be centered around your needs—not assumptions about who you are or how your life is structured.